Love Doesn't Try to Change People

God loves you because of who you are, not in spite of who you are.  When you do the same for others, your relationships will be blessed and you will have great peace.  God's love in you will allow you to do it.  Don't try to mold people to fit your expectations through preaching, nagging and manipulation.  Love and support them where they are.  Let the Love make them not different but better.