The Man in the Mirror

The problem you perceive in others is often a reflection of the very same problem that exists in you.  If you notice that someone is arrogant, check your own nose to make sure it's not in the air.  If you get tired of your friend being negative all the time, pay attention to your attitude.  If you can't get along with a coworker because he or she just doesn't seem to like you, do some self examination.  Do you like him or her?  God isn't going to show you other people's issues before he shows you your own.  Your issues are the only ones you can fix.